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Foxygen

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Hey guys its me, the guy who screws up this forum with topics that are completely separated from gaming.I am sorry to make such thread but i need help.I have a situation here with a girl that's older than i do by 5 years, and the thing is that i feel in love with her.We both are from the same technology center where we learn programming,graphic design and bunch of other stuff related to creativity.I never felt this way before, i mean i have met alot of girls out there but she's not one of them.She's the person that i had real crush.Once i have drawed her on a piece of paper without having any photo of her, it was decent but was hard to get her picture out of my mind.The next day i went there and gave her the drawing,she was smiling at me and we had an eye contact for a long time over there.

Now the bad side of this, i am going to serve the army at december.People in there gonna make a soldier from me for 2 years.And as you may know i am already losing my time.I may never see her again and it hurts soo much in my heart.Its like one of my sweetest memories fading away from my mind.And i dont know what to do about it.She may even get married after two years.I am not her boyfriend or anything but we're little bit close and i am hoping that we'll be together eventually.I swear i never felt this way before, she changed all my directions and i started to focus only on her, because after being depressed and all alone in my life i really felt that i should make my steps now.But now it hurts inside my heart soo much and i so worried about it.I gonna approach to her at Tuesday i will try to get to know more.But i dont know what to do about these 2 years that i am gonna be in army.Can anyone help me with this.

 

P.S - Sorry for making such a topic.And yes i know my English sucks.

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Tell her how you feel before you ship out best thing I can suggest.

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Tell her how you feel before you ship out best thing I can suggest.

I guess i have to.I cant find another way around if i wont be someone special in her life.

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Try to get something going with her before you leave. Dinner and a movie may be cliche and cheesy but it gets the point across. She seems interested, so just ask her. Odds are she's as tempted and probably even more nervous than you, so make the first move.

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Try to get something going with her before you leave. Dinner and a movie may be cliche and cheesy but it gets the point across. She seems interested, so just ask her. Odds are she's as tempted and probably even more nervous than you, so make the first move.

Thanks!!

Ill talk to her at Tuesday, hope i'll not sound so stupid.

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good luck. but after reading your post i can confidently assume that you are in what is known as "the friend zone".

 

if you can get her to go out with you on an actual date i.e. romance, kissing, maybe even sex if you both really click together and have her as a GF while you go to the army, and she in fact did consider you just a friend at first....

 

then you would be the first person in human history to get the girl and escape the friend zone all at once.

 

so good luck.

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Drawing a picture of someone and givin it to them is kind of a good start if their reaction wasnt creeped out.

I think you are probably doing better than most people would so... Eh, just keep it up.

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You have nothing to be sorry for Foxygen. You did the right thing by asking our advice!  I truly hope everything  works out for you. and Thank you so much for your service to our country!! Anyone in the military fighting for our country is someone i can truly respect!!  Take care and stay safe and let us know how everthing turns out!

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Thanks guys, i am really grateful that you have spent your time reading what i wrote.I was really in need of that help because i was kinda stuck between time and fear.Ill consider your advises and ill try to do my best.
 

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good luck. but after reading your post i can confidently assume that you are in what is known as "the friend zone".

 

if you can get her to go out with you on an actual date i.e. romance, kissing, maybe even sex if you both really click together and have her as a GF while you go to the army, and she in fact did consider you just a friend at first....

 

then you would be the first person in human history to get the girl and escape the friend zone all at once.

 

so good luck.

In my experience the "friend zone" doesn't exist, It's that place were you're unwilling to push harder because you don't want to risk alienating the other party.

....at least that's what I keep telling myself <---still single >_<

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You have nothing to be sorry for Foxygen. You did the right thing by asking our advice!  I truly hope everything  works out for you. and Thank you so much for your service to our country!! Anyone in the military fighting for our country is someone i can truly respect!!  Take care and stay safe and let us know how everthing turns out!

this person has a metroid for a profile pic.

 

always listen to them, they know exactly what they are talking about. metroid = obey that person. praise them like the lord.

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In my experience the "friend zone" doesn't exist, It's that place were you're unwilling to push harder because you don't want to risk alienating the other party.

....at least that's what I keep telling myself <---still single >_<

well....

 

still single seems like you might be wrong about your approach buddy!  :P

 

but dont feel bad... im married now, i signed away all my freedoms and i gotta put up with her for the rest of my life. friend zone doesnt seem so bad now lmao

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